Start Blaming Your Man For His Cheating Ways – Not The Other Woman!

So the internet is ablaze with the latest drama surrounding Cardi B’s announcement of her separation from her husband and child’s father, Offset.

These two young rappers are the epitome of hood rich and are living “their best lives” publicly and they are no strangers to controversies and nauseating cheating rumors.

By now, y’all should have some insight of the full rundown of their story, as it has flooded every entertainment blog and news site, but if not, check out this in-depth timeline of Cardi B and Offset’s relationship from Billboard HERE.

The latest update, is a personal video that has surface of one of Offset’s alleged mistresses, Summer Bunni, who gave a tearful public apology to Cardi. Seemingly remorseful, the young woman intimates that, “I have not messed with Offset since he had his baby,” “I feel ashamed,” “From me to Cardi B, to her fans, her family, her situation, these were never my intentions.,” “I never wanted to break up a happy home.”

Through tears she adds, “I am very sorry this has happened and I am very sorry I didn’t think about my worth as a young lady” — THAT PART!!! 

Watch the edited video over at TMZ.

FIRST OF ALL… that woman didn’t even have to say a word. She could’ve just gone into hiding. Could’ve just deleted her social accounts. Could’ve even fallen off the face of the earth, yet, pride and shame aside, she put herself out there for public ridicule by owning up to her sh_t and asking for forgiveness. THIS IS THE OTHER WOMAN.

Now….HAS OFFSET PUBLICLY APOLOGIZED FOR CHEATING ON HIS WIFE? He publicly proposed. Publicly cheated. Publicly stunted with her. So now that he has caused her much shame and frustration, even during her pregnancy, WHY DOES HE GET A PASS as the public rips the other woman?

The only comment he has made, was under Cardi B’s video announcement with a whack ass, “Y’ALL WON!” Like somehow the fans and outsiders sent this helpless man into the wild and forced him to lay with multiple women and told him to FLEWED THEM OUT to perform threesomes! The nerve of this n…. Sigh!

Summer Bunni did say one thing that everyone took and ran with…  “I didn’t know just how serious this marriage was.”

Wait people…didn’t we just find out a few months ago that they were married last year?!?! Shockingly amidst a host of cheating rumors? Weren’t we all surprised that Cardi got married and pregnant, so soon into her buzzing career? So why is it so hard to grasp what this woman said, especially when we don’t even KNOW THE LIES she could have been fed from Offset.

Let me tell you something about men who cheat – THEY LIE OUT OF THEIR ASSES!!!! 

But back to y’all holy rollers who are more consumed with other people’s business than your own and use your itchy fingers to pass misplaced judgment online – STAY OUTTA DE PEOPLE BUSINESS!

You can try to conjure up what YOU THINK HAPPENED but you weren’t there. You can come for me and say I am defending the other woman. Actually I am! I am not here to condone what she did but SHE IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE DESTRUCTION OF THEIR MARRIAGE! THEY ARE.

It takes a lot for someone, who could be wrong and strong, to publicly admit they were wrong AND PUBLICLY ask for forgiveness. I hate that people – ESPECIALLY WIVES / WOMEN – always beat up the other woman yet ALWAYS LET THE MAN SLIDE.

That’s what men do, cheat.

It is not the other woman’s responsibility to keep your vows sacred or to be the wife’s best friend. Everyone is in a situation for their own personal agenda. Very rarely you would have people who are honest enough to outline their needs – especially married couples!

You married a cheater sis. He cheated once, twice, thrice….shiiiitttttt!!!!!! When exactly did you think his spots were going to change to stripes? After the wedding? After the baby? After the second, third or fourth child? When are you going to take your life back and take ownership of what you allow?

C’mon sis! Fight that man or fight yourself for believing his dumb_ss was going to change after the third time. Don’t fight the other woman. There would be none if he wasn’t making himself readily available or asking for sexual favors or self-sabotaging – seeking an out from a marriage he never wanted to be in, in the first place!

And to the people who were in Cardi’s comment section encouraging her to work it out with her man and stay for Kulture’s sake, I ask…

How many times will you allow your spouse to cheat before you say enough is enough? 

Have we never pondered that there are some people (friends, family, celebrities, ourselves!) in marriages who were never meant to be married? So why force them to stay? Especially when they are not happy? Why not be supportive in allowing them space to be their best selves than to stay in a relationship that does not serve them?

People really need to deal with their misplaced anger and learn to channel that energy into the right direction. Either you’re down with a cheater or you’re not. Just be honest with yourself and own that sh_t. Be adult about what you want. Kudos for Cardi for saying, F_ck it, I’m done!

Now people… please leave that young girl alone and CALL OFFSET OUT FOR PURPOSELY DESTROYING HIS RELATIONSHIP!

We are not giving these men any more passes in 2019! #TIMESUP!

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